Renouncing Selfishness

In this week’s message, Pastor Linn Winters unpacks the truth that the opposite of love is selfishness. As followers of Jesus, we are called to confront the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways selfishness shapes our decisions, relationships, and spiritual lives. Only when we renounce selfishness can we fully reflect Christ. 📝 Main Points 1. The Opposite of Love Is Selfishness Selfishness destroys relationships and distorts our spiritual walk. Love requires giving, not grasping. 2. You Will Be at War with God Until You Stop Putting Yourself First A self-first life leads to constant tension with God’s will and purpose. 3. Our Greatest Aspiration Is to Become Like Jesus Jesus modeled humility, service, and sacrifice—everything selfishness resists. 4. You Cannot Be Like Jesus If You Live Selfishly Serving others is selfless. When we give our time, talent, and treasure, we push back against the pull of self-centered living. 📖 Scripture References Isaiah 14:12 A powerful example of how pride leads to downfall—highlighting why selfishness is spiritually hazardous. Ephesians 5–6 (Marriage Chapter) Mutual submission is essential in marriage. You cannot love well while living selfishly. Philippians 2:3–7 "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit…" Jesus—though God—gave up heavenly privilege to help us. God becoming human is a greater stretch than us becoming a snail, yet He chose humility. Galatians 2 A call to crucify our old, selfish nature so Christ can live through us. ✨ Takeaway Renouncing selfishness is not optional—it’s essential. To follow Jesus is to choose humility, service, and love over self. Live selflessly. Serve joyfully. Reflect Jesus fully.